Look, I know that many trans and members of the community hate the term passing or the actual goal behind it. I get it. It sets a pretty high standard on some of us and also may cause some despair for others. But I won’t pretend like I am not proud of looking as femine, or in other terms, of passing a woman. I did a lot of sacrifices and spent a lot of time and, yes, money, to get here. I am not ashamed to say that I did have breast implants, and facial feminization surgery. Understandably, I would not look like I do if I did not. Also, if I am hiding my face on here, it simply is to stay anonymous or to avoid being recognized.
I know NYC is a big city, but I’d like to keep it on the down low. Not that it’s a secret but I work in the corporate world and want to avoid my colleagues to find out. Again, not that I am not proud. It’s just that I don’t feel that coming out as trans to some almost strangers is important. My family and friends know, and that’s what matters. Same goes for my future boyfriend ofcourse as at some point, there won’t be any hinding it haha. Lastly, if I had to describe myself, I’d say that I am well versed, pretty active when it comes to sports and a bit of a foodie, but nothing too crazy. I am only interested in men who aspire to a serious relationship. Let’s have a chat and go for a stroll in the Park.
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